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Dealing with Family Disputes Over an Estate

Posted by Anthony Serra | Feb 27, 2025 | 0 Comments

The loss of a loved one is difficult enough, but when family members disagree over the estate, emotions can run high. Disputes often arise over inheritances, the validity of a will, or how an estate is being handled. Fortunately, there are ways to navigate these conflicts while minimizing stress and legal battles.

Common Causes of Estate Disputes

Family conflicts can stem from a variety of issues, including:

  • Unclear or outdated wills – If a will is vague, ambiguous, or hasn't been updated, disputes can arise.
  • Perceived unfairness – One sibling receiving more than another can lead to resentment.
  • Executor conflicts – Beneficiaries may feel the executor is mishandling the estate or acting in their own interest.
  • Sentimental items – Disagreements over family heirlooms can sometimes cause bigger fights than financial assets.
  • Claims of undue influence – If a will was changed under questionable circumstances, it may lead to challenges.

How to Handle Estate Disputes

1. Review the Will and Estate Plan Carefully

A well-drafted will should outline asset distribution clearly. If disputes arise, the first step is to ensure the will is legally valid and reflects the deceased's true intentions.

2. Mediation Before Litigation

Mediation can be a cost-effective way to resolve disputes without the need for court intervention. A neutral third party can help family members communicate and find a fair resolution.

3. Ensure the Executor Is Acting Properly

If beneficiaries believe the executor is not fulfilling their duties, they may request an accounting of estate assets. If misconduct is suspected, legal action may be necessary. Simply asking for an accounting does not mean someone is challenging how the money was handled.

4. Understand Legal Options

If conflicts cannot be resolved through discussion or mediation, probate court may need to step in. This can involve contesting the will, requesting a new executor, or clarifying legal ambiguities.

5. Preventing Future Disputes

The best way to avoid family conflicts over an estate is through clear, proactive estate planning. Steps include:

  • Updating your will regularly to reflect your current wishes.
  • Communicating with family members about your estate plan.
  • Retaining an experienced estate planning attorney who can draft an estate plan in a way that minimizes future conflicts and probate disputes.

Final Thoughts

Family disputes over an estate can be stressful and emotionally draining, but they don't have to escalate into full-blown legal battles. Open communication, mediation, and proper legal guidance can help minimize or resolve conflicts efficiently. If you're facing estate disputes—or want to prevent them in your own estate planning—contact Serra Law Group for expert legal guidance.

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Anthony Serra

Tony Serra is a passionate advocate, especially for the elderly, disabled and those of modest means who need the services of an experienced and caring attorney. For more than 30 years, Tony has been helping common, everyday folks navigate their way through life's turbulent waters. Through innovation and utilizing modern technology, Tony and his law firm are now able to offer quality legal services that at one time were prohibitively expensive, at a fraction of the cost. If you need basic legal services, such as a Will, Power of Attorney, Living Will, Special Needs Trust, real estate transactions, uncontested guardianship pleadings and much more, please visit our website and our SMART LAW legal services platform. You will be pleasantly surprised by what we offer and glad you did! Tony is also an experienced mediator and founder of the Conflict Resolution Center of NJ. Tony has specific training in family matters as well as elder law and contested guardianship and estate cases.  

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